Older people with dementia have a very difficult situation in their life, because they get more emotional and angry and it seems very sad to the visiting person. Weekly thrice or twice must visit them. If they see them , they may be happy so spend the day with them. The person always expects your love and care. They hesitate to tell what is in their mind. They also have feelings and needs.

Families only need to take care of the person. Don’t allow a senior caregiver for them. We only need to respond and care well. A time has been set aside to visit the individual. When we go there, we aren't able to visit them. Particular timing they have, that time we go and visit them. Enjoying a wonderful visit and learning more about demands may even inspire family and friends to come more frequently.

The person has so much pressure and tension in their mind , they don't express their feelings but sometimes it bursts out. It affects their health. Give healthy food items to enrich their old lifestyle. Then they become very bold and active. By providing certain do’s and don’ts in advance, you can prepare guests for success and establish a peaceful atmosphere that will help your senior focus.

Dementia disease is about the person after 60s they will suffer from memory loss, overthinking, overly emotional and their mind always upset. This dementia suffers for all in their 60s and after so be careful in that stage. Some families love their elders very much, their care and innocence are very beautiful. Some joint families expect to stay in the same place. Protect the person like other people. We offer four strategies for organising fruitful visits as well as crucial do’s and don’ts that make the experience enjoyable by assisting friends and family in knowing what they need to say and perform.

People who have dementia say and do things that are typical for someone who has memory loss. They would be diagnosed with something else if they were intentionally aiming to irritate you. Always forgive them. For example, your wife isn't purposefully concealing your favorite pair of shoes. by placing them in a secure location, she is protecting them, but he subsequently forgets. I have found that the best advice is to keep in mind that there is a person behind the dementia. Use their name as much as possible, and be respectful. Prioritize maintaining their dignity. Seeing a loved one suffer any illness, even dementia is difficult.

There have do’s and don’ts for visiting an older people ,

Do’s

1. Respect their emotions and feelings and accept them, and invite them to open up.Communicate with them in a clear language, and the tone should be very polite and speak calmly with them.

2. Encourage them with their strength and ask if they are interested in going anywhere or buying anything.

3. Show the happy moments , tell about the previous day of any happy news and tell some interactions about the photos and social media.

4. Respect their values of moral and ethics, and ask them to do physical exercise but there are some boundaries that respect that also.

5. Fulfill their desires they need.

6. Cherish their beautiful part of old memories.

7. Appreciate their boldness and cooking skill.

8. Buy some interesting things by their wish.

9. Give importance to their health and give them what they like.

10. Treat them like a newborn child because they need care from you.

11. Give special attention to them.

12. Give space to talk to them freely.

13. One or two persons are permitted to visit the individual.

14. Give some space to make choices by their independent style.

15. Grand childrens can play with them by distance. It makes their day fulfilled.

16. Show the reassurance they always need , must expect that comforting.

17. Environment must be quiet and maintain silence.

18. Keep with them. Assess their energy level and mood.Never should they be made to do anything against their will.

19. Comfortable doing so. To avoid any surprises, always ask first and let them know you’re going to give them a hug.

20. Before visiting the elderly home, always spend at least five minutes brainstorming topics of conversation and activities to perform together. Use tangible props whenever feasible.prepare for intervals of silence. You can tolerate silence for five or ten minutes, you tell yourself. Demonstrate to the president your comfort with silence.

21. Work with family. Friends, community organizations, or counselors to plan visits and assistance for your loved one. After your visit, give the person a call or make a video call to stay in contact. Keeping in touch can also be facilitated by sending modest presents , pictures, emails, or cards.

DON’T S

1. Don’t speak rudely to the person, don’t put any restrictions on the person, the person needs some freedom.

2. Arguing the same topic and they get angry.

3. Compared with others.

4. Remembering their saddest part of their life.

5. Punctuating a past action.

6. Respect them with correct manner

7. Gossiping their character with the nearest person.

8. Treating like a patient.

9. Ignoring the person.

10. Don’t speak loudly to the person.

11. When they speak, don't interrupt them. They were confused to deliver some information.

12. Two people going for a visit, in front of them don’t use any code word or any actions.

13. Ignoring their feelings and emotions.

14. Showing a reaction unlikely to visit them.

15. Correct them on minor things. Arguments with crazy people can be quite frustrating for both the patient and the visitor.

16. Inquire with them about delicate topics. Make sure your inquiries are straightforward and unimportant, and allow them ample time to respond.